Drag Performances

Let me tell you about some of my most memorable drag performances!

Second round of Lush’s amateur night, 2019.

In 2019, I had been performing for awhile but hadn’t gotten much traction. At the beginning of a drag career, a performer usually goes to amateur nights. These are judged by audience applause and can be pretty tough. As much fun as it is performing, it is tough to lose night after night.

I asked a fellow performer backstage about how to handle the stress of not being successful. They said you really just need to practice one routine a lot, not try a ton of numbers. But also, you’ve really gotta look like you’re having fun.

The above photo was me the night I first made it to the second round shortly after. I performed Billie Eilish’s “bury a friend”, which was brand new. I had spent the week watching choreographers on Youtube and stole the best bits. It was a hit! Maybe because the song was new, maybe because I practiced my routine more than ever, but also maybe because I was hot. Who knows?

Either way, afterwards, I started having a lot more fun.

Performing at Lush on my birthday in 2019

This second photo was also at Lush a few months later on my birthday. I performed “If I Was Your Woman” by Gladys Knight & the Pips. This photo was just seconds after I threw all those ones in the air above me. Sure, I had some friends in the audience, but I also made the most in tips I had ever made (up to that point). I love that lighting, I love that dress, and I had such a blast.

The Bloodbath Ball of 2019

This orange and purple furry dress was a dress I made from scratch. On the back is a train of stuffed animals sewn together. You might spot some eyeballs on the front, and you certainly can’t miss a recently decapitated Kermit the Frog.

This look was for the Bloodbath Ball, a halloween themed pageant. The challenge was to make a look from scratch out of non-traditional materials. My concept was “Muppet Hunter.” The judges didn’t love it, but I still do!

Lastly, this photo of me during the 2019 Minneapolis Pride Parade. A photographer for a local LGBTQ+ magazine snapped this one, and it’s just one of my favorites.

Let’s Talk About Drag

I’m not sure how to write about this, because this is my personal and professional website. I’ve always been nervous about combining this side of me with my Drag Queen persona; when I’m in the office or doing Data Science, I don’t wear a flower in my hair, I don’t dress crazy, I stay focused on the work.

But I think being a well rounded person is healthy too. When I started performing drag on stage in 2017, I was stagnating in my Data Scientist career. I was working on personalization for Target.com and the product had matured to the point where there was not obvious “low hanging fruit” for improvement. IE, it was harder and harder to develop a novel personalization algorithm that would beat our current champion algorithms. So there was some “creativity” missing in my life.

But since I turned 28 in 2013, I had been going out and exploring the Minneapolis night scene, of which drag was a huge part. And if you read my fashion post, you know I was really getting into not blending into the crowd. I’d also started watching RuPaul’s Drag Race, which was a blast.

Performing at Sister’s Sludge in 2023

I guess I could have tried a hundred other creative hobbies, but I was most jealous of the performers that had people coming to talk to them all night. It seemed like an art form that made you “cool” instantly.

So, in spite of being a terrible dancer and not knowing drag makeup styles at all, I went to the Monday night amateur night at The Saloon and tried it out.

Easter Costume 2024

It was awesome. I did terrible, did not make the second round, and there were a 100 things that went wrong. But I tried. And it gave me something to work on, and made me feel like I was putting myself out there.

I’m still a terrible dancer/performer, but mostly the crowds feed on energy, and I really try to put it out there. There’s not many heterosexual drag queens out there, but at least there’s me – Tilda Nextime. Check out @MistressTilda on Instagram for a ton more photos.

On a float during the Twin Cities Pride Parade 2024